Tuesday, June 17, 2014

The Bachelor Dinner

More commonly known today as the bachelor party, this celebration in the groom's honor was originally called the Bachelor Dinner, or stag party. Like many other wedding traditions, the custom has stood the test of time. It first came about in the fifth century, in Sparta, where military comrades would feast and toast one another on the eve of a friend's wedding. Even today, a bachelor party customarily takes place quite close to the actual wedding date, as it has become known as the groom's last taste of freedom. Despite the risqué entertainment that is associated with stag parties today, bachelor parties have not always entailed this controversial element. Although noisy and lively, bachelor parties are traditionally organized to allow the nervous groom and his wedding attendants to release some anxieties before the big day.

The History of the First Marriage Rite

The first marriage rite started in the Old Testament. From the time of Adam and Eve, the relationship between a man and a woman has been unique and ordained by God. Eve was created for Adam and to complete his need for companionship. Our earliest records of history depict unification between a man and a woman and their respect for a higher being. It wasn't until Abraham disobeyed God that other women came into the picture and left generations of unrest for those who chose to take more than one wife.